what you do when a friend die ? by Launny < Journal | Inkbunny, the Furry Art Community

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eeveefan

4 months ago

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*hugs*

Jawbreaker89

4 months ago

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I already buried my main two best friends before any of them hit 34 and another old friend that went to high school with us also died. It's lonely, depressing and it leaves you asking God why, but we have no choice but to go on and not let it ruin us

gohan5150

4 months ago

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It's... not easy. A friend of mine passed last year. Was an online friend, and frankly I'm very lucky to have closure. Usually when something happens to a friend you only know through online, they just stop coming on and that's it. You never find out. I tried to focus on what they would have wanted, what they wouldn't have wanted. I tried to celebrate my favorite experiences with that person, cause I don't think they would have wanted me to be sad over them all the time.

ruink

4 months ago

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deaths of your friends is very hard, it hurts more if you had a bad disagreement before said friend passes. As someone whose friend died going home from my house, it made me very upset knowing things could've been different in how he passed. it hurts at first, by when you remember the good times, it's easier.

sometimes, you can immortalize them by making them characters in your art.

TGA5000

4 months ago

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We're sorry to heard about that launny, but we're all here for you. *hugs*

Weiss

4 months ago

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It might seem stupid or heartless to say but the best thing you can do is distract yourself so you don't think about it. Because the more you think about it, the more you start to question your own existence and that is enough to drive anyone mad. Mourn the person, sure, but don't think too hard about metaphysical stuff like the after life.

moyomongoose

4 months ago

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What I do. A time of remembrance, then continue on in life.

None of us are here in this life permanently.
We should be thankful for the time we do have in this life, and not begrudging for the time we thought we should have had.
Always remember each day is a gift, and not an entitlement.

KevinSnowpaw

4 months ago

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Death in inevitableand it is cruel.. but it can be merciful we don't know what comes next all we can do is accept, hope and do our best to move foreword.

blueskunkcoon

4 months ago

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I know that feel where it is love one or firend its not easy to deal with.. I know I am like you in that regards. Know that they will always be in your heart.. surround your self with a good support group and allow your self to grieve and give you time to heal.. Take time for you self and I wish you the best.

DallasTMouseBoy

4 months ago

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Hugs for you ❤️

ksharbaugh

4 months ago

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I have lost both friends and family over the years and have had time to consider such matters. I'll spare you my spiritual views as that may not be of much use as we likely have different positions in that regard, but from what you've said I think something that came to mind recently could be of some comfort...

Everybody that comes into our life, whether we meet them in person or not, influences us to some degree whether we're aware of it or not. Even when they pass, that change they brought about in us remains. We are, all of us, the living legacy of every person we have known. Parents, teachers, friends, critics... every one lives on within us so long as we live. And when we pass from the mortal world, we live on in all the people that have known us, that we have spoken to, shared a laugh with, inspired, amused, aroused, or disgusted with our work. Whenever you think of them, the time it takes up in your life, is life to them... as it will be for any of us after our time has come.

Gothxicroak

4 months ago

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Very sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences.

VahVahVahVixen

4 months ago

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Its OK this happons when its some ones time, morn them do not, miss them do not, remember and honer them you do.

Wakka

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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*Hugs* Ill always be your friend Launny.

JaiDreamsicle

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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I generally cry a lot at first, then do something alone that we did together a lot. Its soothing in a sense and gives me an appreciation for what we had in our friendship.

SenGrisane

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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Life is fleeting. Its so painful to lose friends. Best wishes to you.
Keep them in your memory.

Springbun

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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I consider suicide ten times more than average when I lose a friend. my friends are literally the one thing anchoring me to this life.

Springbun

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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ignoring my first comment, my advise is to see the other friends you still have. their company may help make the pain slightly more bearable until you're able to process the situation properly and live with it accordingly.
not gonna lie, it's a tough as nails process but I feel we owe our friends enough to at least try for them.

Gthulu

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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*HUGS*

XCubLoverX

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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Edited 3 months, 4 weeks ago by Owner

Oof

Mvindo

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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you never stop missing them, but you do get used to it eventually

it's the only thing we can do - adapt to the new reality

RagingSemi

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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Honestly...Even I question myself on this topic at times. God punishing us or uplifiting despite what we did instead of harshly judging for fondling ourselves. Sometimes I Wonder what is the point of it all.
Lost my Great Grand Mother two years ago. I miss her alot. Funny enough I get memories of her sitting next to me and laughing. Like damn my GreatGrandMother was 93 and I knew she was old but it still hurt like hell. She was there...and then she was gone.
its never about not missing them but when you get that feeling remember the good times of that individual you were with. Never fall into despiar Launny.

Nightwing57

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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*hug*

MichaelJBear

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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*hugs*

rb88

3 months, 3 weeks ago

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my condolences

thecooler

3 months, 3 weeks ago

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My deepest condolences. sadly angels can't stay to long on earth.
we can only have them for a brief moment but wow yea!
what a moment that is am I right? sorry for your lost.

KushHeadFievel

3 months, 3 weeks ago

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Hugs.
It hurts to lose someone you love family or otherwise, as I lost my life partner not long ago. Jan 3rd, around 8PM EST.

Just take your time with what you are working on for me.

mrluca

3 months, 2 weeks ago

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*hugs*
My friend passed away last week or so...
And her funeral will be in my B-day...
This is so hard to think about it. She was so young and left her little kids...
I feel an emptiness inside. Trying to imagine what she felt her last days. What feels her husband. What feels her kids. Trying imagine what if I'll pass away like this?..

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