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Neversoft

Recap and Current Situations

Hello everyone, Neversoft here. I'm sorry I’ve been inactive for a while with no update, as a lot has happened since my last post. I'll be brief and explain the best I can.

My grandpa and my family on my Mom's side had me, Furist, and XanOdice move into his house to take care of my grandma as well as his home so nobody would sell or misuse it as he went to the hospital for care. My grandpa also wanted us to be safe because at that time we were homeless at the time, residing in an RV.

During this time as we were taking care of my grandma, I hear from my dad's side that my other grandfather unexpectedly and suddenly passed away. Heartbroken with grief, I chose to distance myself online to attempt to process my stress and grief, as he meant alot to me and I didn't get a chance to say goodbye. Eventually I also was given word that my grandpa on my mom's side's condition began to fluctuate until it eventually worsened, to the point where he decided he wanted to go on hospice care so he can pass safely. My family on my Mom’s side kept stringing us along with various stuff and last minute plans along the way, keeping us in the dark until they decided to divulge any information that would help us take care of my grandma.

A few weeks ago after my grandpa peacefully passed away, my Mom decided to push us all out of the house and is now planning to sell it, using (what we assume to be) her power of attorney over my grandma, ignoring my grandpa's wishes to keep the house within the family, as well as ignoring all of the intense grief of losing two of the most influential people in my life, and the stress this has put me, Furist, and XanOdice through, and the fact that we never really had a chance to find a new place, giving us no other choice but to move back into our RV. This is unfortunately far from over as we still have the reading of the will and my Mom trying to sell the house before the will is even read, for we suspect she isn't entitled the true ownership of the house after all.

Even while the dust is beginning to settle, I’ve still been falling in and out of depression spells and other mood swings, coming to terms with my loss and the fact that my own mom would rather I sleep in a car if it meant she can have extra money to play around with. We will try to get back into the swing of things with more art and posting. We also plan to open commissions very soon to help us get back on our feet.

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Added: 2 months, 3 weeks ago
 
TsunderePanda
2 months, 3 weeks ago
:( Ooooof. I'm so sorry to hear that, that is terrible. I hope the three of you will make it through okay.
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
So do we. I’m working on my mental health first as we go through these hard times.
Beartp
2 months, 3 weeks ago
  Sorry to hear about your loss..   AS to the POA with your Grandfather dead that should be null and void now. If you know who your grandfather's lawyer was you could address that concern to them. She needs to have the property in her name or named the executor ot his estate with a letter of authority to legally and properly sell the home
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
My Mom has POA over my Grandma and we don’t have the money for a lawyer.
Beartp
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Last part I understand completely  but as said the POA shouldn't be valid upon death.  Your health is important
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Both my Grandpa and Grandma owned the house. Now just my Grandma owns it and my Mom has POA over her.

We are focusing on our mental health. Thank you.
Beartp
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Yuo do that and hope things get better for you
kat37
2 months, 3 weeks ago
Yeah lots happened liked that these days really hope you do better soon. I sure could can hope a lil
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
thank you, we are trying.
kadeathnas
2 months, 3 weeks ago
well bro, I'm sorry to read all that, I hope everything is going better for you, I understand your pain because, although I only grew up with my maternal family, my maternal grandfather was my father figure and a very important person for me, that's why, When he died, it was a very hard blow for me. If you like we can talk. a hug
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
It is hard. both of my grandfathers are really close to me, they still are.
kadeathnas
2 months, 1 week ago
Things happen for a reason, maybe at first we can't understand it, but then time will tell us why.

My grandfather was a being who gave his life for his family, to provide everything. and he passed away before my country fell into that difficult crisis.

Then we thought that this was better, because he would have looked super frustrated and helpless and perhaps would have died from a heart attack, respiratory attack or something like that, it would be better for him to leave peacefully, full of family love and seeing at that moment a family united in around caring for him
WozWerth
2 months, 3 weeks ago
Oh jeeze.  That's rough!  Take the time you need to recover, bud.  Best wishes and hope you'll be okay
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank you dude, that’s the plan.
LeonEgyxos55
2 months, 3 weeks ago
My best wishes that u make it through
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank you.
JUANONYX
2 months, 3 weeks ago
friend, I read your situation with complete pain, as I know what betrayal within the family feels like. It is one of the hardest things I had to face and it left wounds that have not yet closed (and never will). I can only wish you strength, my most sincere wishes for your well being! May this situation be over soon!
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
it sucks but not unexpected with my mom. thank you.
ZwolfJareAlt306
2 months, 2 weeks ago
*offers hugs*
Take care of yourself!
Neversoft
2 months, 2 weeks ago
**hugs back** I am, thank you.
Sharkiesabortionclinic
2 months ago
I'm sorry dude. I wish only the best for you and your family that is actually on your side through this. Trust me, I could write a whole book on family betrayals. If ya ever want someone to talk to, I'm here.
Neversoft
1 month, 4 weeks ago
Thank you dude. <3
Corporaterust552
2 weeks, 1 day ago
Holy shit, that's rough. Best of luck to you going forward. :)
Neversoft
2 weeks, 1 day ago
Thank you for the best of wishes.
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